I spend so much time focusing on how you can please your man, that I sometimes forget that even you, actually we , need to enjoy ourselves as well.
That said, today I'm going to help all you guys out there enhance your own almighty orgasm. Now before you place your partner in position and prepare to astound yourself, keep in mind that you do have to pay attention to his needs as well.
Yes, you will be multitasking in bed, but it's not that difficult once you figure out how simple it can be to amplify your orgasm. And chances are that by attempting to improve your own orgasm, you will, in turn, enhance His in the process.
the pleasure is all yours
When you do have sex with your man, make yourself aware of what's going on around you. It's easy to get sucked into the immediate gratification, but there is a lot more to orgasm than ejaculate and a nap afterwards.
1- Pay attention to physical sensations
Listen to the noises surrounding you, such as music or his moaning (or even your own). Feel his body against yours and use your hands to explore other areas of him. Inhale the scent of sex and enjoy the redolence surrounding both of you. Use your mouth to kiss and taste his body. And finally, look at him, or use as mirror to look at the both of you while you're into each other.
2- Fantasize
Sometimes fantasizing about being with your partner in a dangerous situation, or role playing that you've just met him and don't even know his name can serve to enhance the sensations of sex and lead to a very powerful, orgasmic release.
As well, fantasizing that he's someone else entirely is also okay; just don't tell him you're doing it, or worse, call out the wrong name.
3- Have him stimulate other parts of your body
The anus is where most men's G-spots are found. While you're having sex, having him simply rub the outside of your anus, or, even using his finger to massage your prostate may lead to one hell of an orgasm.
If you're totally against the idea of anal touch, then have him wrap his hand around your testicles and massage them, and even tug on them lightly. Having him do this when you feel your orgasm approaching provides the best results.
4- Interrupt your sex
While you're having sex, stop the lovemaking and engage in other activities for a little while. Then penetrate him again and keep doing this until you're about ready to explode -- and I mean that literally.
Interrupting the sex will not only intensify your orgasm; it will intensify him as well. If he begs you to keep going, and you don't, chances are you will have a squirter on your hands.
5- Tighten and release your muscles
Whether it's your pelvic or your thigh, squeezing your muscles for a few seconds and then letting them relax will serve to make your orgasm an unforgettable one.
Obviously, I am not suggesting that you should blatantly hold your breath and squeeze your muscles while your partner stares at you, petrified about what's going to happen next.
Be subtle, but feel free to exercise your Kegel muscles, or tighten your thighs while you're making love.
6- Engage in some bondage
Whoever said that there's pleasure in pain was right on target. Sometimes, hair pulling, spanking and choking can lead to unforgettable orgasms. Of course, your man has to be willing to do these things to you.
Then again, I personally get off on doing such things to my man. There's nothing quite like having a man submit to you and beg you to spank him. Needless to say, when I arrive, I arrive big time.
7- Focus on your orgasm
Many guys tend to pump away like maniacs when they're about to orgasm and ejaculate. I suggest that you slow down when you feel yourself about to let go. Penetrate him at a much slower pace, and focus on the sensations involved when your ejaculate approaches the base of your penis and makes it way out of your body (and into a condom, hopefully).
intensity at its finest
So now that you can turn your orgasm into a life-altering experience, use your newfound powers to make your love life all that it can be.
Until next time, take your own O all the way to Z.
That said, today I'm going to help all you guys out there enhance your own almighty orgasm. Now before you place your partner in position and prepare to astound yourself, keep in mind that you do have to pay attention to his needs as well.
Yes, you will be multitasking in bed, but it's not that difficult once you figure out how simple it can be to amplify your orgasm. And chances are that by attempting to improve your own orgasm, you will, in turn, enhance His in the process.
the pleasure is all yours
When you do have sex with your man, make yourself aware of what's going on around you. It's easy to get sucked into the immediate gratification, but there is a lot more to orgasm than ejaculate and a nap afterwards.
1- Pay attention to physical sensations
Listen to the noises surrounding you, such as music or his moaning (or even your own). Feel his body against yours and use your hands to explore other areas of him. Inhale the scent of sex and enjoy the redolence surrounding both of you. Use your mouth to kiss and taste his body. And finally, look at him, or use as mirror to look at the both of you while you're into each other.
2- Fantasize
Sometimes fantasizing about being with your partner in a dangerous situation, or role playing that you've just met him and don't even know his name can serve to enhance the sensations of sex and lead to a very powerful, orgasmic release.
As well, fantasizing that he's someone else entirely is also okay; just don't tell him you're doing it, or worse, call out the wrong name.
3- Have him stimulate other parts of your body
The anus is where most men's G-spots are found. While you're having sex, having him simply rub the outside of your anus, or, even using his finger to massage your prostate may lead to one hell of an orgasm.
If you're totally against the idea of anal touch, then have him wrap his hand around your testicles and massage them, and even tug on them lightly. Having him do this when you feel your orgasm approaching provides the best results.
4- Interrupt your sex
While you're having sex, stop the lovemaking and engage in other activities for a little while. Then penetrate him again and keep doing this until you're about ready to explode -- and I mean that literally.
Interrupting the sex will not only intensify your orgasm; it will intensify him as well. If he begs you to keep going, and you don't, chances are you will have a squirter on your hands.
5- Tighten and release your muscles
Whether it's your pelvic or your thigh, squeezing your muscles for a few seconds and then letting them relax will serve to make your orgasm an unforgettable one.
Obviously, I am not suggesting that you should blatantly hold your breath and squeeze your muscles while your partner stares at you, petrified about what's going to happen next.
Be subtle, but feel free to exercise your Kegel muscles, or tighten your thighs while you're making love.
6- Engage in some bondage
Whoever said that there's pleasure in pain was right on target. Sometimes, hair pulling, spanking and choking can lead to unforgettable orgasms. Of course, your man has to be willing to do these things to you.
Then again, I personally get off on doing such things to my man. There's nothing quite like having a man submit to you and beg you to spank him. Needless to say, when I arrive, I arrive big time.
7- Focus on your orgasm
Many guys tend to pump away like maniacs when they're about to orgasm and ejaculate. I suggest that you slow down when you feel yourself about to let go. Penetrate him at a much slower pace, and focus on the sensations involved when your ejaculate approaches the base of your penis and makes it way out of your body (and into a condom, hopefully).
intensity at its finest
So now that you can turn your orgasm into a life-altering experience, use your newfound powers to make your love life all that it can be.
Until next time, take your own O all the way to Z.
